About
Few may know this, but twice as many dads of newborns today are now in the 40-plus age group, compared to the 1970s. Six weeks before my 40th birthday, I became a first-time father, hence the title of this blog.This life-changing moment made me think about my own dad, who became a father at 43. As my parenthood journey unfolded, I noticed that most of my friends had become parents earlier in life yet, here I was, changing diapers and battling sleep deprivation at (nearly) 40. I told my wife, “Parenting is definitely a young man’s game.” But is it really?
Where most of my friends were preparing for their children’s middle and high school graduations, I was mastering the art of the swaddle, perfecting the one-hand baby wipe, and learning to decipher my daughter’s gurgles and whimpers. It occurred to me that I had so much more to offer my daughter at the sure-footed age of 40 than I did at, say, 28, when I was still coming into my own.
Fatherhood@Forty: Memoirs of a Gen X Suburban Dad™ is a creative outlet to share my experiences and connect with other (relatively) late-in-life dads.
Here are a few factoids about me, Johnathon Briggs, the editor behind this blog:
- I’m a former journalist (Los Angeles Times, The Baltimore Sun, Chicago Tribune).
- I love exploring Chicago and the Midwest with my family.
- I remain on a constant quest to stay fit.
- I support charities that fight HIV, uplift families affected by incarceration, and ensure African American boys graduate from college.
- I’m a comic book geek (mostly Marvel, but a bit of DC and Image Comics).
- I’m a child of the ‘80s, so please expect occasional references to the Golden Age of Hip-Hop.
As a reporter for daily newspapers, I had the opportunity to interview fascinating people and to test out great products and brands for my readers. I hope to do the same for you as I blog about the moments that make up this adventure called fatherhood.
Feel free to tweet (@fatherhoodforty) or email ([email protected]) me if you’d like to collaborate or have ideas for a blog post.
Father on,
P.S. Check out The Art of Conversation podcast interview I did with Art Eddy from Life of Dad.
by Sincerely, Jennie
Congrats on the launch! Can’t wait to follow the journey.
by Johnathon E. Briggs
Thanks, Jennie. I’m excited for what’s ahead!